Be Glad…


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Be glad…for the good fortune of others Be genuinely happy. Offer the your good will.

When we are jealous and envious, then we tell the Universe that because someone else had good fortune that there is not enough for us. And if we believe that there is not enough for us then that’s what will happen- there will not be enough. Then not only will we still be envious, but we’re not going to get what we want.

There is enough for everyone.Truly there is. Be glad for others and they will be here to be glad for you too.

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Surround Yourself…


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Surround yourself with them…positive people, when you can.

Okay, I can already hear what you’re saying “I can’t pick my family, Debbie,” and you’re right- you can’t. But you can pick your friends.

Now I’m not telling you to abandon your friend in need- we all have times when we just need to “talk it out” and we should be that sympathetic ear. But when all you get is a sea of negativity all the time and it’s starting to affect you- then perhaps you might to cultivate more friendships that are mutually rewarding.

Don’t abandon your friends but instead widen your circle-the more positivity you can expose yourself to the better you will feel and the better able you will be to help your less positive friends find solutions that can help them; after all, everyone wants to be around happy, smiling and positive people because it rubs off. Then everyone feels better.

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Take It…


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Take that leap of faith today! If there is something that you’ve been wanting to do but are afraid then today’s the day to push that fear aside. Don’t worry what others may think or say, because it’s your life and it’s time you made the most of it. So stand up straight and do it.

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What…


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What matters most to you? Have you sat down to think about it? Have you written down what is important to you and made a plan on taking it step-by-step or are your thoughts all over the place?

Until you make up our mind about what you want, then you can’t take the steps necessary to make it a reality. Think about it.

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It’s A Waste Of Time…


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It’s futile to compare…yourself to others because we all have our own individual strengths. Just because your best friend may be a chef and you can’t even boil water does not make that person better than you. You have something that you are better at than your chef friend.

But too often we under- value our own gifts while putting positive focus on the attributes of others. So what if you can’t cook- may you’re a great writer or painter or…whatever.

Put your positive focus there. It’s not wrong to compliment other people- we should probably all do that more often. But to praise somebody else while at the same time putting yourself down? Uh, that’s a “no”

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You Can…


parkMove ahead with your plans. Form a picture in your head and take it from there. Write down the steps you need to take to go from where you are to where you want to be and work on then each day.
Know that you can do it. Know that you possess all you need right inside you to make your life the way you want it to be. When doubt creeps in push it out and slam the door on it…hard!
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Let It Go…


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Are you holding on to an old grudge? Are you re-living an old argument in your head over and over? Are you refusing to speak with somebody or get together with them?

Why? Holding onto old hurts is like hitting yourself in the head with a frying pan over and over. Unless you like having a headache or bumps on your head it’s not a positive thing to do.

What IS positive is holding out the olive branch. Make that connection. Make that call. Mend that bridge. It will make you and the other person feel a lot better. The frying pan…use it for cooking and not to beat yourself up

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