Forgive- you’ll feel a lot better for it. Holding on to grudges and hate only makes you sad.. and sick. Rage can give you a heck of a headache, and stomach problems, and anxiety problems- and who needs it?
And you’re only hurting yourself. You’re mad, you’re angry, you’re runny around saying (or muttering under your breath) that *****! I hope she/he drops dead! What nerve! And then you stand there, stomach in knots, wringing your hands, while the “object” of your rage goes happily on his/her own way unaffected by all the drama you think you’re inflicting on them.
So give it up already! Let it go because there’s nothing to gain by holding a grudge:)
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