Let it go…all that “stuff” you’re carrying around with you. You know what I mean…the time Aunt Carol told you on your fifteenth birthday that you were too dumb to get into a good college. Or the time your cousin Ralph told you only an idiot would live in a studio apartment.
That stuff happened years ago; said by people who just didn’t know any better. Did you know Aunt Carol never graduated high school and that cousin Ralph lived above his mother’ garage until he was 40?
Let it go. it has no constructive place in your life. It will not encourage you or make you feel better about yourself. It will only drag you down.
So take your “stuff” to a nice lake or body of water and mentally release it and watch it float away. Good riddance.