Many times we just get swept up going along with what other people want that we don’t realize that we’re not taking the time to do what we truly enjoy. We go here because one friend wants to, or go there because that’s what our partner wants. It’s wonderful to be accommodating towards the people you care about but going to see a play five times in a row because your friend likes it and you hated it the first time you saw it is likely to make you unhappy. There’s got to be compromise there somewhere.
And you need time to enjoy and explore what makes you happy.