Are your words kind? Do you offer a smile and sincere sentiments? If asked for your opinion do you give it with concern for the feelings of others?
Or do you just blurt out whatever you feel like saying regardless of the effect it may have on another? Do your words tear them down?
Think about how you would feel to be spoken badly to. Would you like it? or would you more likely avoid that person (if you could) in the future?
Don’t be the person that others go out of their way to avoid.