Step Back A Little…


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There are times when we want to be high energy – we want to get things done because we have places to go and things to do. But there are times when we need to step back and slow down. There are times when we just have to say to ourselves “Hey, this is my time to just kick back, walk slowly, look around.”

Getting a lot done is great but if we think we can keep up a frenetic pace non-stop then we are in for a burn-out We need the time to chill out,

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Lighten Up…


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Okay if you’re gonna keep on doing it…entertaining the green- eyed monster, that is, then you’re going to stay stuck.

If you lean out the window to look at Paul’s new Mercedes and then think to yourself “Oh man, he doesn’t deserve that…I do!” then that car is just going to move further and further away from you because you believe that all there is is lack in this Universe; Paul has the car you want so that’s it; that’s the last one, and he’s got it! You might as well dust off that old rusty bike in the basement because that’s what you’ll be using.

But if you get up, get dressed, and go out to greet Paul to congratulate him on his brand new car and mean the words you say…then you have just affirmed a bountiful Universe. What Paul has can be yours as well (and no, you don’t have to steal his) In fact, this is your sign that yours is on the way.

It’s Now…


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It’s always now…it’s always the right time to move forward; to take the next step.

It’s not next week, or next month, or next year. When you think along those lines what you’re really saying is that is it NEVER going to be the right time.

A leap of faith is exactly that- taking that chance.

But isn’t it better to take that chance and to find out than to exit this life with that chance still tied up inside you never to see the light of day and never coming to fruition?

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Be Enthusiastic…


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Be enthusiastic! Get out there and smile. Put some energy into what you’re doing and pick up your step.Whistle while you work.

The more enthusiastic you can be the more pleasant your day will be. Things are happier when you smile d when you look forward to doing a great job- instead of dragging around and saying “Not this again”

Try it- see the difference a little enthusiasm can make in your life and the way it unfolds

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Are You Happy…


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Are you happy? Do you make it a point to be happy about simple things- a sunny day, a smile of a child, the beauty of a flower, for example?

Or are you only happy when something ore monumental comes along- like a new car or a big raise at work?

Of course you should be happy about those bigger things, but let’s face it, those things don’t come about everyday, so if you’re waiting on those types of things to make you happy then you may be waiting for a very long time.

But if we can be happy about simple things, every day things that we sometimes (okay often) take for granted because we just don’t think they’re that important to be excited about, then we will be happier more often- and that positive mood will drawn in even more for us to be happy about.

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Let It Go…


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Let it go- the comments of other people sometimes. Not everyone will agree with everything you do. They just won’t. But that is no reason for you to change your mind about what you’re doing or what your plans are if you really believe in them.

No one will ever have 100% of the vote- they’ll always be someone (and sometimes quite a few) who won’t agree with you. But that doesn’t make them right or you wrong. Go with your gut and listen to your inner voice at all times and go with it.

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How Do You See It…


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If you see everything as annoying, if you are annoyed at everything, well then, it’s gonna keep happening to you…more stuff coming your way to get you mad.

The guy in front of you takes an extra 3 seconds to go when the light turns green; you lean on the horn…you’re annoyed.

The lady in front of you at the deli counter decides at the last minute that she wants a lb. of Swiss cheese and you have to wait another minute…you’re annoyed.

The guy in the drive-though line is ordering too many things in your estimation and should park and go inside the store…you had to wait an extra 90 seconds…you’re annoyed.

And now these people have gone on their merry way enjoying their day…but you’re not because you’re still annoyed.

So, you have a choice. You can either change your perspective on the things that happen during the day; you can let it roll off your back and then walk away smiling…

Be Your Own…


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Be your own barometer. How can you do that? By noticing your feelings in different situations.

When you feel good; when you feel open; when you feel ANYTHING is possible then you know you’re in the right place… the place where dreams come true; the place where miracles happen.

But when you feel nervous, anxious, angry, jealous or insecure, then you’ve entered the land of “blockage” the place where you and the things you want stagnate and just seem to fall apart.

Practice feeling good. Practice being grateful for what you have.Practice being happy for the good fortune of others. Be kind in your words and deeds. Move forward in life with positive expectation and a smile.

See the difference it can make in your life.

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Why Not…


 

Be glad…for the good fortune of others Be genuinely happy. Offer the your good will.

When we are jealous and envious, then we tell the Universe that because someone else had good fortune that there is not enough for us. And if we believe that there is not enough for us then that’s what will happen- there will not be enough. Then not only will we still be envious, but we’re not going to get what we want.

There is enough for everyone.Truly there is. Be glad for others and they will be here to be glad for you too.

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See It…


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See only the best in people. Notice their good qualities. Their kindness, their sense of humor, their level headedness, their determination. If you look you will always find the good in people. And when you notice the good in others you will find it in yourself as well.

Don’t be quick to judge others. Be kind instead. Remember what you give out comes back to you:)