Can You See It…


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Can you see yourself doing what you really want to do? Can you envision it? Can you see it in your mind and in your mind’s eye touch it and experience it?

Karen Ford tells us “People will never attain what they cannot see themselves doing”

Make it a point today, in fact right now if you can, to review what you want and spend your time visualizing it.

If it is a little tough a first, then find a quiet place, put on some soft background music, light a candle and concentrate on the flame. Let your mind drift at first but then start to focus on what you want.

The more you can do this the more you help bring your dream to life instead of leaving in the back of a dark, dusty closet never to experience the light of day.

#seriouscoaching #debbieailman #positivevibes #crystalhealing

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Are You Vibrating Towards It?


Are you vibrating towards it…the goals you have set for yourself; the things you desire? They are already there, all around you, just waiting for your vibration to match theirs.

And how do you get there? By holding the thought, unwavering, that they are already yours. See yourself, in your mind’s eye, in whatever situation you want to be in. Where would you be? What would you be doing? What would you be wearing? Who would you be with?

The list of questions can go on and on, but only you know what the questions would be and what your answers would be as well.

But don’t let those thins get away from you. Attract them now and let them pop up in the reality you create.

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Give It A Try…


 

Give it a try…a new situation. Let me give you an example.

Many years ago, right after my divorce. I wanted to meet someone new, but I just wasn’t looking in the right places. And so, one day I picked up this little magazine called the “”Selling Post” Okay, it sold mostly farm equipment, but on the back page was a dating service. And it was free.

Most of the people I worked with thought I was crazy, that this was no way to meet someone new. But my thought was that I wasn’t having much luck anyway, so why not try it?

I met a lot of nice guys through that magazine; I learned what I liked and didn’t like. and then, I met my husband.

Soon after I got married I noticed that whenever I walked into a room some of the women abruptly stopped reading something and then shoved it hastily into their handbags; it was the “Selling Post.”

Keep your options open. The situation might take you exactly where you want to go.

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Notice Them…


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Notice them…your feelings. They are your true barometers; they are your measuring sticks and your compass about the direction you’re going in.

If something doesn’t feel right; if it feels “off” somehow then don’t ignore it. Stop and really think about what you’re doing. If it still makes you uncomfortable then maybe it’s time you changed your path…or at least made a slight adjustment

Give your inner self credit for knowing what’s best for you. Trust it. And go with your gut.

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Do You Keep Track…


Do you keep track? Do you write down your goals? If not, why not?

Just the act of writing then down makes them more concrete. The idea of crossing things you’ve gotten done is very motivating. Get yourself the kind of notebook you like and the kind of writing instrument you like. Make it a pleasurable experience to keep a goal list. Keep it with you and review and update as you see fit.

The act of writing things down helps us immeasurably. Why not give it a try and see if it works for you.

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Take The Scenic Route…


 

Take the slow road…and enjoy the scenery. Take the slow road…and enjoy all the beauty life has to offer.

Yes, there are times when we need to have a sense of urgency and we need to move fast. But that is not every single time. Notice how often you are in a hurry to go nowhere. We get ourselves into the habit of moving fast and then we think it applies to everything in life.

But it doesn’t…

Remember that and don’t let life pass you by in one big blur.

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Go Your Way…


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Do you recognize your strengths? Or do you focus on your weaknesses?

Now, you’re probably wondering why I chose this picture to go with today’s blog. Well, I’ll tell you. This is a picture of (left to right) my cousins Billy, Johnny and Gary, and yes that’s me in the hat (why the heck I had a pocketbook I have no clue…I didn’t have any make-up (didn’t need any then) or credit cards.

But next to me is my cousin Gary. He’s a wiz at math; which is probably why he’s a financial analyst today with a major bank. Me? I need a calculator to add two + two.

But for years, when I was growing up, Gary would come over to tutor me in various forms of math. It progressed, you know, to geometry and algebra and calculus.

But it didn’t matter how much Gary tried, or how patient he was…I just didn’t get it.

Math was NOT my strength, but I completed my English Regents Exam in thirty minutes and got 100% (they give you three hours to complete it)

So, in my long winded way, I’m trying to make a point…you KNOW what you’re good at. You KNOW what comes easy to you and what makes you happy doing it.

FOLLOW that way…for it is your way; it’s the way you’re supposed to go.

#seriouscoaching #debbieailman #positivevibes #crystalhealing