Are You Underestimating Yourself…


Are you underestimating yourself? Are you underestimating your talents while overvaluing what others can do?

For example, maybe you’re a great interior decorator, and people, over the years have come to you for advice and everything you’ve told them has been exactly what they loved. You just have an eye for colors and fabrics and styles and, well you get the idea. In fact, you’re very creative. Many people have told you that you should be doing this for a living.

But somehow you don’t see it that way. You seem to think that anybody can do what you do. Anybody will know exactly how to decorate their own home or office. But then why do so many people come to you for advice no matter where you go?

You’re at the checkout line in the grocery store and you see your neighbor, and she has her friend with her. What’s the first thing she says? Oh, I’m so glad to see you. This is my friend Dave and he just bought a place a few blocks from us. I told him that YOU were the perfect person to help him decorate it! Hint… hint…

But instead you focus on your other neighbor who has a landscaping business. And you say to yourself “Now, that’s a talent! I wish I could create some of the designs that Larry can.”

Okay, Larry is talented but so are you. One is not better than the other. Larry has a talent for knowing how to create a beautiful garden with flowers; you create beautiful spaces using another medium. You BOTH are using your natural talents, but Larry has built a business around his. Hint…hint.

Don’t underestimate your abilities but instead use them to move forward in life.

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Be Your Own…


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Be your own barometer. How can you do that? By noticing your feelings in different situations.

When you feel good; when you feel open; when you feel ANYTHING is possible then you know you’re in the right place… the place where dreams come true; the place where miracles happen.

But when you feel nervous, anxious, angry, jealous or insecure, then you’ve entered the land of “blockage” the place where you and the things you want stagnate and just seem to fall apart.

Practice feeling good. Practice being grateful for what you have.Practice being happy for the good fortune of others. Be kind in your words and deeds. Move forward in life with positive expectation and a smile.

See the difference it can make in your life

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 It’s how you measure it that matters…your success. It’s how YOU feel about what you’re doing and about the path you take that should be paramount.
Sure, you can listen to the advice that others give you- and it may very well be worth it. But if it doesn’t feel right to you, then no matter what they say, you should probably leave it alone.
Go at your own pace. Let others go at the speed that is comfortable to them and let them seek the path that is right for them- it might not be the right thing for you to share that same road.
I think you’ll find your own path, the one that sings to your soul, has the best view of all.
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Keep It Up…


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Which will it be- which thoughts will you choose? Will you choose the thoughts that will uplift you, inspire you, make you feel good? Will you make a commitment to yourself to keep up those quality thoughts? You can do it.

Or will you choose thoughts that make you feel bad and low energy and that keep you in fear, because you can choose those as well- it’s up to you.

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Calm Is The Way…


Calm down! Running around like a chicken with your head cut off doesn’t help you. It doesn’t help you effectively deal with problems, in fact it just makes it worse.

So calm down, take a breath, drink some water, rethink and then…attack your problem with a clear head:)

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Talk…


 

 

Talk…just what kind goes on in your head? Just for today monitor what you think. Are you encouraging yourself. Are you saying things like “I can do this” and “this is going to be a great day,” or are you waking up just to want to pull the covers back over your head and hide there?

The way you talk to yourself really will determine how your day goes and how your life goes…for that matter. So watch your “talk”

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Keep It In Perspective…


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Keep it in perspective- those little annoyances in life. Missing your bus or train is not the end of the world. Having to buy another brand of fabric softener from your usual brand is not an apocalypse.

So often we make such a big deal out of little things, we pump so much negative energy into them that we condition ourselves to get upset at the drop of a hat- and that is no way to be.

Before you get mad over a small thing ask yourself if it’s really worth getting upset over- save yourself some grief.

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