Make That Climb…

Sometimes ya just gotta- make that climb and put one foot in front of the other. Sure, as you ascend you may not know what awaits you but you go anyway knowing you will be led closer and closer to your goals. Just keep going.

If you don’t make that climb you’ll stay where you are. If you like where you are then that’s wonderful. But if you don’t or if you feel a calling to go in a different direction then put your shoes on and start climbing. Your future awaits you at the top of the stairs.Get moving.

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Every Day…

Every day can teach us a new lesson. Every day has some knowledge to impart to us, even on one of those days where nothing seems to go right, because those days teach us to reevaluate and perhaps choose a different way of doing things.

That is, of course, if we choose to see it that way. But if we choose to just see the day as annoying and irritating, then that is all it will ever be.

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It’s Now…

It’s always now…it’s always the right time to move forward; to take the next step.

It’s not next week, or next month, or next year. When you think along those lines what you’re really saying is that is it NEVER going to be the right time.

A leap of faith is exactly that- taking that chance.

But isn’t it better to take that chance and to find out than to exit this life with that chance still tied up inside you never to see the light of day and never coming to fruition?

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Be There…

Be there… and be as happy for the success of another as you are about your own successes. Be as supportive of another as you would want them to be for you.

We are all one big “team” and there is enough success to go around for everyone. Just because something good has happened for another it does not mean that yours has been taken away. Far from it.

When you are happy and supportive of others then the Universe is going to be supportive of you and the things you want to have happen in your life.

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Just A Little…

A little goes a long way…a little patience that is.

I was just in the driver’s license office renewing my registration when the system went down and I had to wait- an hour. I sat down and pulled a book out that I carry with me just for such an occasion. I was fine with it- after all, it wasn’t the fault of the man who waited on me, he didn’t want the system to go down I’m sure.

But the lady sitting next to me wasn’t quite so gracious. She screamed and yelled the whole time, paced back and forth and asked me repeatedly why I wasn’t getting upset over this whole situation. I told her I didn’t think it was anything to get upset about.

We finally got waited on and she told everybody who worked there that they gave her a headache. She gave herself the headache.

A little patience goes a long way.

Choose Wisely…

Choose wisely…the company you keep choose to friend those people who lift you up when you’re feeling out of sorts. Choose those people that make you smile. Choose to be friends with those who not only can help you but that you can assist as well. Choose those who welcome your assistance, whatever form that may take.

To those that tear you down well, wish them well and move on. They will find their place but perhaps that place is not in your life.

You deserve to feel good about yourself, always remember that.

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It’s Break Time…

Give yourself a break today. For one day why not push your troubles aside and do something you LIKE to do.

You know what I’m talking about. It could be that trip to the lake or the park. It could be going to a movie you want to see. It could be trying that new restaurant or a visit to a friend you haven’t seen in awhile.

Don’t put it off. Take time for YOU because you are important and you matter!

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Smile…

Do you smile? Do you greet each day with anticipation or do you dread the sunrise?

Do you count your blessings or do you curse those you think have “more” than you and just want what they have too?

Are you there to lend a hand to someone who may need you or do you turn your back and then wonder why you’re always alone?

It can turn around. It starts with gratitude and a smile…and it starts with YOU.

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Let It Go…

Sometimes ya gotta…let go. Sometimes you need to walk away from a situation where you may not be getting the best possible outcome. And that applies to our relationships as well.

If you are not being treated with respect and if you don’t feel good being in the company of another person then it may be time to move on. Waiting for somebody to change may mean you’re in for a very long wait. Yes, people CAN change and often do- but a lasting change is one where the person makes that change because they honestly feel it is in their own best interest to do so and not because somebody else is trying to “make” them do it. Those types of changes never last and the person being asked to make that change may come to resent it- and you.

Always remember that you are worth being loved and appreciated and seek out those who will indeed appreciate you- and then you do the same for them.

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What’s On The Screen…

What’s playing…in the theater of your mind? What kind of movies?

Are the movies of success, and confidence and of moving forward? Even though there could be setbacks along the way, do your movies show you meeting them and continuing your journey? Do your movies make you happy? Then good for you then you are on the right track and keep screening those movies.

But if those are not the type of movies that are playing in the theater of your mind then perhaps it’s time to change the film.

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