Search inside. What do you really want? What do you value? Where do you want to be?
I said “you” think about you. Follow your heart and not the wishes of your Aunt Fannie. She has her way and you have yours. Do what feels right to you:)
So you fall. That’s not important. What IS important is if you just lay there, lamenting your fate or if you get up, shake yourself off and keep going.
What will YOU decide?
It’s okay to have a bad day. Being positive doesn’t mean that you will never feel bad, or angry. It doesn’t mean that you will never be tired or grumpy.
It just means that you recognize these things and understand their nature, and that you allow these moods to blow over before you take action you might regret. You wait for the “storm” to blow over:)
If you keep your mind open and silence the little voice in your head that tells you things like “you can’t do that” you will find opportunity all around you.
It may come in an overheard conversation or on a billboard. It might come from a page in a book that you randomly opened. It might come from a distant memory but it will come if you are ready to accept it:)
For just one day, can you cast aside the fear and worry? Can for, even just for once, believe that you are capable and that you deserve the best? And if not for a day try it just for an hour.
When that hour is up try it for another hour. You just might feel so good you’ll decide to believe in yourself permanently and that’s when the real miracles start:)
Give thanks today! C’mon, you have many things to be grateful for. Just look around you..there’s always something.
Today, give thanks for all you have…in fact make it a habit to do it everyday:)
Be calm, since there’s no sense in getting upset over things. Nope, there’s no sense in going 90 mph on the highway…you really won’t get there any faster, in fact, you’ll probably get slowed down by that police officer giving you a ticket. No sense in yelling either…most people just turn you off and then you end up with a big headache…and standing by yourself.
Your best plan of action is to just things slide and unfold as they should:)
Do you know how wonderful you truly are? if you did, you wouldn’t be facing every day in fear and uncertainty.
You would feel the joy and confidence that we are all meant to feel and each day would be a celebration and not cause for a “mental funeral”
The next time you have an urge to put yourself down stop and remember these words. Stop and realize how wonderful your life could be if you just believed in you:)
Just watch. Put in your order with the Universe and watch. Let it unfold in its own time and in a way that is best for you.
You don’t need to force anything, or worry about anything. You don’t have to calculate every move. Let it go and just let it happen:)
Help somebody. Whether it’s through a service or the giving of your time, money or even a smile…help somebody else. When you help somebody else you also help yourself. We are all here for a reason. Our great Universe always watches and rewards compassion and charity with some compassion and charity of its own…towards you!
Deborah Ailman 